This One Word You Use Every Day Makes You Sound Judgmental
As Shani Elhiani, LMFT, explains, a word like “always” leads to overgeneralizing where you’re “coming to a general conclusion based on a single event or one piece of evidence.” So, it doesn’t give the people around you the opportunity to grow and make mistakes. “No one is ‘always’ anything,” says licensed psychologist Kelly Rabenstein-Donohoe, PsyD. “Even things we love about others aren’t present 100 percent of the time. The word ‘always’ leaves the other person no choice but to stand in the opposite corner, therefore your point is likely to be lost and communication fails....